Charmaine and her Co

Thursday, May 29, 2008

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Nothing happening here worth chatting about.....:)
catch ya later

cya charxxx

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Happy 60th Daddy!

Today is my Dads 60th birthday, which means it is my 40th in exactly 2 months!
Better pull the finger out and arrange that double party for DH and me huh?? LOL

Okay we went to Barmera to visit Dad last night. Leigh had a job interview at 5.30 and we decided to kill 2 birds with one stone and do the Dad thing as well.

I didn't have any idea what to get dad for his gift and being a big one i couldnt just buy the usual stuff so managed to make him an album with copies of all the old photos i have here of his Nanna and Pop, Mum and Dad and sister. I also used some old photos of us 3 kids that he wouldnt have seen as him and mum separated when i was about 3 or 4 so he really loved it......it was really plain and basic but made with love:)

DS was told at the interview that he would get an email about Tues to confirm whether or not he got the job....imagine his joy when i logged on after getting home and seeing he has been successful and now will be someones employee................................... i will keep it as a surprise where until he gets his uniform and i can takea photo LOL

We have had some issues with him lately and the latest news which hasnt been confirmed yet is that he may be getting suspended! Naughty boy. There are no excuses but we are hoping to speak to the persons involved and are hoping a written apology and a verbal one with reasons may just help him out of this predicament. Little shit!

We are at our wits end with him , okay he is not an angel but he is not a nasty or vindictive or anything bad, he just loves a good chat and he is like his father and can come across as arrogant sometimes, he doesnt quite know how to hide his impatience with people he feels are being fools and that is not meant to be derogatory in any way.....i guess like both his parens he doesnt suffer fools gladly....

He just doest seem to want to go that extra bit with his work or anything, which is unfortunate as we are told he is a very bright child but just doesnt work to his full potential, but that i believe is most kids and we have been told repeatadly (sp? doesnt look right which ever way i spell it LOL) that this is a common trait in year 9 boys....................grrr.............i wish he would wake up.

He knows to be a sign writer or graphic artist which is what he wants he has to study hard and he told the guy who gave him his interview that yes he was going to grade 12 and he asked why, Leigh said because i am going to Trade School so he has the drive just cant work out where to put it at the moment.

We are thinking that this getting a job thing may help him settle down. We have explained that school comes first and if he doesnt keep up with the school work he has to stop work but i believe this may just be what he needs.....to help him focus.....he has been desperate to get a job and he has taken resumes about town and only one contacted him to say he was unsuccessful.....he actually has been a bit depressed about his lack of job and money.....part and parcel of being a kid i guess.

Zoe is great as normal, although we are now getting one or two tantrums and hissy fits, being 12 and a half does that i guess LOL She is such a loving giving and kind person and i love her to pieces,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,she makes me smile with lots of things she does. You know what she did last night......i had asked her to turn my electric blanket on for me when she came to give me a kiss goodnight ......................well when i went up later to make my bed she had already done it...............well okay i didnt have a doona cover or sheet on my bed but it was made lovely:) So thats how we slept in it last night:)

Thankyou to the girls who left comments for me in my last post. Im sure not alot of people read this dribble but it is lovely to know that some do and that you take the time to comment:)
It means alot that people care enough or sympathise enought to bother :)

On the scrapbooking front i havent done alot...you can check out the miserly lot i have done here
(nope sorry cant log into bloglines to get link....SO SLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) Ive been checking for the last 15 mins! and i dont know the name of the page heeehee okay here it is

http://charmaine-my365days.blogspot.com/

Thankyou to Chels at Scrap Boutique...i won a voucher there the other week and i brought some papers with the voucher.......OMG they are beautiful................i have so missed parcels in the mail,,,,,i am on a strict budget ATM and havent even looked at anything least i want to buy it *sob sob* So i had a ball buying these papers......i got some great bargains,,,,,you should go check it out:) http://www.scrapboutique.com.au/ now im hoping that link will work!

Sassafrass Lass.....sprinkled...i LOVE the stripey side
Dream Street.....Rock and Roll - Rockin, Nostalgic- Maudlin and wistful (very grungey....for boys)
Fancy Pants Key Lime pie...desert ( or should that be dessert)
My Minds Eye........ Day Dream bubble gum girl
Pink Martini...orange creamsicle
Cosmo Cricket.......GetHappy-Lucky
and last but not least Scenic route LOL....Ashville Orange street

Thanks Chels you really made my day.....

Life apart from all the usual stuff has beena bit stressful actually.....my place of work has been sold and although the new owners will keep us all on there is a little niggle in the back of my mind saying hmmm what if they dont.....i know they WILL because we are going to have to teach them and as i am in charge when the boss is away and the other lady is away i am hoping my job is safe IYKWIM????? Argh probbly not explaining it very well LOL:)

There have been changes at DH work too and i hope to god he will still have a job.......if he doesnt we are stuffed,,,,,,,,,,,we have pretty much decided if this new venture of ours doesnt work out................................................and there is no reason it shouldnt (apart from the water side of it all) then we are pulling up stakes and moving :)

We have given ourselves 5 years to ge this place paid off and i know we can do it so fingers crossed te water is available to us.....but in so saying there are so many people worse off than us...

God internet is slow today...we are right at the end of our bb. I paid it thurs and i bumps back up again i think on tues...........

Well i am heading off now....no one else is up yet and so i might play with some of these papers....cant be bothered fighting with the stupid internet today i have had enough :)

We are off to paint at the old house today......oh and CHELS?????????????? Its been raining here YAY!

We did the first coat in 3 yes three rooms and half the hallway yesterday it was awesome we were so pleased with ourselves so today along comes the crockpot full of soup and some rolls and the kids telly and dvd player and we shall be set for another few hours ......can so NOT wait until this is all done and we can put it on the market!!!!

Have a great sunday guys....charxxxxx

Thursday, May 08, 2008

hmmmmm

Im angry, tired,annoyed,pissed off, cranky and no one gives a shit!
Why do kids have to be so......................................i dunno i can't put the words down here....i dont want to hurt their feelings because i do love them dearly..................................why does one when you say no always manage to wangle it to work their way and once again you are left shakng your head wondering why you didnt see that coming.....again.....................why do i tell and not ask? Im sick of being told i nag................................hello get and do it without asking and you wont get nagged....................so im angry,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i am in my room and have been for the last two hours..............thinking, stressing, comtemplating, and crying................but so far i dont know how to fix it.............nothing happy or fun to read about here today