Monday, October 01, 2007

We are Upset!

Saturday night we came home from shopping to see Leigh on the computer but obviously quite upset....

he has been on Ebuddy which his friends use to chat on on the net....any way here are two of his cousins whom he invited to his party, one ex friend (boyfriend to one girl cousin) and one of his friends from his party at the ex friends place and they were RIPPING MY BOY APART IN THE CONVERSATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I read what he had written thinking that maybe something was said to start this tirade but as you can see what has been written in that conversation he had only said two things,,,,why are you shouting at me and why.....

Now these kids are 13 and 14 and the rotten revolting gross things spilling onto the computer screen were absolutley VILE...we had three of these children in our home only last saturday and to see what they were saying a week later absolutely boggles the mind.......some of these words and phrases i have honestly never even heard of and the contortionistic positions my son was supposed to get into well.....the imagination boggles...

I just really wanted to rant and vent about this.....it has afffected Leigh quite badly as he has no idea what he has supposed to have done...if anything and one particular thing that was said came from the boy that was at the party because the other two girls were out on the road....remember from my other post darrel went to get them as they wouldnt listen to Leigh.....this boy was at the ex friends house feeding him this info.......

I am so discusted, disappointed and angry, where were the parents....we couldnt save the conversation as we couldnt work out how to........it is in a window by itself and wont let you copy and paste it...

I couldnt approach the parents as one is my step sister and who would believe us anyway, also these kids would attack Leigh even more.....we have spoken in great depth and he is not to talk to them on the computer or the phone......these girls rang leigh all the time to just chat and shoot the breeze and to be hurt so badly.......

Daz had just been saying the other day that they are doing courses at work and such things covered include character...one of the quotes he passed along was you can tell if someone has good character by the way they act when they think that no one is watching........well these little people have no character at all if their parents knew what they had been up to (i know i would be) they would be shocked to the core.

Enough of this im agitated again...its the unfairness of not being able to stick up for your kid that really bites:(

So this weekend has been kinda low key.....we went out to the local markets yesterday just for a drive and to check them out as we had never been before.....lots of jewellery and wooden bread boxes ect, that kind of thing.

We stopped and had some chips to munch on and on the way home stopped in at cheap as chips and i brought some more paintbrushes....zoe uses mine and soesnt washe them,,,hence i need to cut the ends of and have another go LOL....i also picked up a couple of 8x8 albums for 3 bucks each......they had some nice 12x12 ones, including some Ford ones but i put them back...im trying to be good and save money!!

Was chatting to daz today about the water situation aand we think we might put our speedboat up for sale. We dont have the time to use it....we have paid for it and the insurance and regos are killing us......we will keep the tinny as we can go down the creeks in that.....thats if there is any water left but seriously if we can maybe sell to someone in Adelaide or on the coast we should make our money back and we can pay some off either the house loan or ute one....

Saturday i spent alot of the day in my scrap room just pottering about.......i think im getting bored of scrapping......*shock horror*
Today i pottered about the house, scanned in some pics from our Qld trip back in may 06 and i want to play with them in Adobe......just have to work out how to *punch* out the colours....Beck can you help me hun??

Oh Daz and i had a nanna nap for about 2.5hrs yesterday.....i think it was a hang over from not being able to sleep the night before wondering if these kids were going to come over and do anything....i would not put it past the exfriend at all....he walked to our house the night of the party to cause trouble....

Im now worried about the kids while we asre at work through the holidays...as leigh is 14 he is able to stay home and so does Zoe being 12....ive told them to play out the back witht the gates shut and if these kids come into the yard...then they are in the wrong (and do what i dont know) but lets hope they stay away......might have to send them to some friends some days to play!!

Sorry this post is all over the place and if you have made it this far then thankyou for that.....
id better go now and get some tea ready back to work tommorrow......could have done with a bit more time off but oh well be grateful for this......hoping to get to Victor Harbour at the end of Oct fingers crossed....:)

Anyway have a good week
cya Charxx

3 comments:

Megan said...

Charmaine this is so horrible to read. Kids can be awful...and they are so cowardly because they often do it behind the safety of a computer screen. And bullies often pick on the nice kids because they don't fight back...I am so sorry you are all dealing with this. Next time (and really, let's hope there isn't a next time) maybe you can do a screen capture and show the parents what has been said.

Hoping the week ahead is a better one for you.

Megan xx

Nise said...

Kids are so cruel. But the worst thing is they wonder what they have done wrong 2 days later and when they want to be friends etc.

Matty is tough he will be ok. it hurts to see kids say stuff about our kids I know.

chat soon
Nise

Rebecca Maree Photography : Newcastle maternity, newborn, family and wedding photographer said...

Hi Charlie, I agree with Megan ... use the "print screen" button on your keyboard to copy what the little brats are saying. Nasty little buggers :o( Hope Leigh is feeling better. Send me an email :o) Beck X